We have been both 18 and also have been together for abit significantly more than a 12 months. 5, to start with we texted frequently and which ended up beingn’t to hard to start with considering that the just other commitment we’d had been college. Nevertheless, I happened to be in a grade above her and graduated and proceeded to obtain a work and so I could help our life, this made texting hard as we had very early begins also it ended up being really actually and mentally tiring work, however i nevertheless texted her just as much as feasible. As time continued our texts started initially to have more and more one sided as i’d enquire about her time and I also would assist her with any issues she had, but she’d constantly start whining about her issues and not really speaing frankly about mine. I happened to be depressed once I had been about 15-17 yrs. Old, i tried to finish it at one point but after some occasions in my own life i realized i had much more to reside for and there’s constantly somebody by having even even worse situation. We overcome my despair, i became happy once more but after a 12 months with my gf and wanting to take care of her despair i am able to feel it creeping again. I fell as if i cant help her, i’m not adequate enough to produce her pleased although we take to so difficult as well as its making me doubt myself progressively. She additionally began to speak about other dudes and just how these people were getting near to her (that we really found out of the guys she ended up being speaking about liked her aswel) but when we ask her not to do just about anything deceptive with them, she began arguing beside me and saying we wasn’t trusting her. But when we asked her exactly just how she’d feel that i wasn’t allowed to and that all i would do is want to have sex with them or at least have those intentions if i was to hang out with other girls she said. Personally I think like iv be much more of something for relief then her boyfriend, personally I think as for me but all she wants is me to make her happy if she doesn’t actually care.